Negotiation

In our second instructional video, Molly and Pandora discuss the best ways to negotiate and express your needs during a spanking scene. They demonstrate techniques including how bottoms can communicate with their tops without breaking out of a submissive role, how tops can check in with their bottoms and find out what they want, and suggest tips and tricks to help new play partners read each other and communicate effectively. The ladies also talk about ending or breaking a scene, reasons you might need to do this and strategies you can use to recover the play session should you wish to. Finally, they discuss consensual non-c0nsent, and how to develop codes with your partner to signal "please continue" when you want to be able to say "no, please stop!"

All these techniques are demonstrated by Molly and Pandora using a selection of implements and positions to spank each other, including over the knee hand spanking, thigh spanking and leather paddle, and bending over for the tawse.

We hope that this instructional video will be hot and informative, whatever your level of experience. If you enjoyed this, you may also be interested in our implement how-to, Introducing the Cane.