We usually talk about two kinds of fantasy: the kind you want to act out as often and indulgently as possible, and the kind that are just for your own inner tapestry of dreams and desires and don’t belong in the real world.
But there are fantasies that live in-between, too. Positive, affirming fantasies that yearn for the daylight, but that we struggle to find the confidence to explore. For many people those fantasies are about feminisation: about feeling pretty and femme and put-together, about being seen as sexy and desirable.
When you’re keen to explore something but nervous and unsure at the same time, it can help to have a guide. Someone who is good with bra clasps and understands how stockings work. Someone who knows things about make-up and loves helping you explore this different side of yourself. And if that person also happens to be pretty handy with a cane, well…
