I adore Matt Christie's photos - his gift with natural light makes every image glow, and he has created some gorgeously erotic pictures of me and my partner D. I think my personal favourite will always be Tangled With You, but I love this new gallery of Erotic Spanking photos in which D takes me over the knee. My hot topless boyfriend and a long, indulgent hand spanking - two of my favourite things!
It always feels like a treat I get a spanking from D. He knows how much it turns me on, and when he takes the time to spank me it makes me feel very loved. But that pleasure is always twinned with a certain amount of shock and indignance, because he has a hard hand - and his spankings really hurt!
He has ways of easing the pain, though. I love it when he rests a comforting hand on my back to soothe me through a series of hard spanks - but it turns me on even more when he puts a hand over my mouth to stop my cries, or reaches around to squeeze my breast.
I love that Matt Christie took the time to capture little details from this scene - like the delicate lace of my knickers, or the moment after D took them down, when they got caught hooked around my six inch stilettos.
But my favourite photo from this set is this one of me glancing up, just after a spank has landed. The look in my eyes tells you everything you need to know about how I feel in that moment.
It's easy to see that when I'm getting a bare bottom spanking over his knee, I am very much in my happy place.
In my head, I divide the scenes on Dreams of Spanking into two categories. The first is "how I play in real life". You can find scenes like this under the consensual, playful and positive tags - spanking that is fun, informal and mutually fulfilling, with people I like a lot. The other category is "what I fantasise about". These fantasies are nothing like my real life play preferences. I fantasise about serious spankings in dark, fictional contexts, often with an unwilling spankee.
My whole concept of ethical production of spanking porn centers around consent. It's very important to me that the performers in my productions have a say in what they do on camera, are treated well on the day, and come away happy. When I'm filming a fun, sexy spanking between me and my friends or lovers, this enjoyment shines through. But what if we're acting the parts of characters and creating a drama that doesn't have a happy ending?
That's where behind the scenes material comes in.
My approach to behind the scenes content is twofold. Firstly, it's important to have videos and photos available on Dreams of Spanking - and not tucked away out of sight in a members area, either, but right there on the tour pages. Performer interviews, out-takes and candid snaps all help to create transparency and honesty about the shooting process, and invite you in to watch how we made our darker, edgier scenes. Not only can you see which scenes have behind the scenes material and which don't before you join, and read a synopsis of each out-takes video, you can watch our free performer interviews in full.
For instance, The Workaholic, our latest M/F film starring Erica Scott and Paul Kennedy, has a 12 minute out-takes and "making of" video showing you the process behind the product, and a 9 minute free interview with Erica.
The Workaholic: Behind the scenes
Out-takes and making of video for The Workaholic! Shooting with a mirror in the background is not straightforward. Why didn't we just cover it? Lots of snark and giggling from Erica and Alex, scene negotiation between Erica and Paul, silly voices, and a hilarious misunderstanding that resulted in Erica stoically staying quiet during 30 seconds of hairbrushing - for no reason. Torture! But there was lots of hugs and post-scene euphoria once we'd wrapped. Erica is a true spanking star. How she took that hairbrushing while still delivering witty one-liners I have no idea.
Who doesn't love spanking out-takes? You can browse all our scenes which include behind the scenes material here.
Pandora Blake interviews Erica Scott
I was absolutely delighted to get the chance to shoot with the renowned Erica Scott in LA this year. This lady is a spanking legend! We took some time after the shoot to chat about how we met, blogging, her books, life, love and spanking. You can find out more about Erica at ericascottlls.blogspot.com.
The other element, just as important, is off-site. In my opinion one of the cornerstones of ethical porn production, the thing that makes it possible for fairtrade porn to be trustworthy and transparent, is social media. I first developed these ideas in my blogpost from 2008, Cumshots, spanking and the role of blogging in feminist porn.
For the first five years of my spanking career I was working as a performer for other producers, and if I felt uncomfortable on a spanking shoot, I know I wouldn't always have felt comfortable saying so in the end-of-day interview, where you are often expected to smile for the camera before you get paid. Blogging, on the other hand, is a different matter. I have never asked or paid a performer who's filmed for Dreams of Spanking to blog about the experience. If anyone chooses to do so, it is in their own time, and their own words. The one or two times in my career I've ever had a bad shoot experience, I didn't blog about it. I was wary of being accused of lying or causing "drama", so I kept quiet and warned fellow models away in person instead. Any performer who writes about a shoot is promoting the producer they worked with, and you wouldn't want to do that unless you still liked them.
So if you want to tell if a spanking film was produced in a fun and fairtrade way, don't take the director's word for it. Any ethical porn director will provide info about all their performers, including links to their blog, website and twitter if they have one. Click the links and read the blog posts, tweets, and facebook posts by the performers themselves.
I'm lucky that so many of my performers are enthusiastic bloggers. Erica has really out-done herself with this scene. You can read her original write-up of the shoot experience in April, written only a day later. More recently, she's also posted an announcement of the video release, a fun post about the behind the scenes video, and a new post last night linking to a new model spotlight featuring Erica Scott on The Spanking Galleries, which includes lots of previews of The Workaholic.Thank you Erica, you really are spoiling us!
Read Spanking Model Spotlight – The One and Only Erica Scott on The Spanking Galleries
God I love a good ruck. A back-and-forth row that screams passion just as much as a good shag does. If given the choice between a calm and gentle relationship with lots of cuddles on the sofa, or an angry, feisty, plate-smashing partnership, I’d definitely go for the latter.
Erica Scott and Paul Kennedy play a stunning example of that kind of heated relationship in this scene, and I can’t decide what’s better – the passion with which she begs him to give her sexual satisfaction, or the frustration she howls face-down on the bed when he responds by giving her a beating instead.
This scene was shot while Pandora was in Los Angeles, and it turns out it was a bit of a surprise one – you can read the back story here, incuding how they came up with the plot. Pandora’s really glad she got to shoot with Erica, and I reckon when you’ve watched this you’ll be delighted too!
Workaholic is not for the faint-hearted. It starts with a fairly traditional idea – the lonely wife trying to seduce her workaholic husband by dressing in deeply sexy lingerie and surprising him in the bedroom. But it quickly gets very dark, as Erica tears up her husband’s work proposal and angers him so much that only a thrashing with the leather belt will curb her rude behaviour.
There’s a glorious tension in the dynamic between Erica and Paul – we know that Erica’s frustrated, but we also know that when she impulsively rips up her husband’s work report, she’s getting herself in serious trouble. But Erica isn’t going to take her punishment without giving her husband a piece of her mind. With every smack on her bottom she’s giving angry retorts, fighting back and struggling as he pins her wrists behind her back. She might be being beaten, but that doesn’t mean she'll submit - and it certainly doesn’t mean she’s in the wrong.
Even as Paul is spanking her with a hairbrush, Erica is making her point - that’s what I mean about the back-and-forth. It’s not just a whacking in which one person dominates the other. Even as her bottom turns bright red and she squeals in outraged agony, Erica hurls witty comebacks and biting remarks at Paul to the point where he genuinely feels starts to feel guilty for neglecting her.
Since I've started working at Dreams of Spanking I've talked about ‘chemistry’ a lot. There's this idea that in porn, because people are professional performers, there can't be any real heat or passion. It's crap, of course - as you’ll know if you’re a Dreams member. While the tone and atmosphere of each scene is different, there are so many films where the chemistry between two performers just crackles off the screen. For instance, there's a similar sizzling passion in Bitch – which stars Pandora and Vix Vixxxen, and involves lots of heated kisses, slapping and hissed ‘fuck you’s.
With their angry battle of wills, Paul and Erica get you not just horny for the punishment itself (with a hand spanking and violent wooden hairbrush spanking over the knee, and a hard thrashing with the leather strap, it really is incredibly hot) but they also get you believing in the characters. I feel for Erica’s frustration, and winced when she tore up the report. And above all I was felt her genuine passion when she tried to get her husband to see her point of view.
As with many domestic disputes, there isn't any clear right or wrong here: sure, Erica’s given such a thorough beating it’ll be a long time before she destroys her husband’s work again, but I feel like Paul’s left feeling apologetic as well. There’s no clear winner in this fight (unless you count those of us who are lucky enough to watch it). But I’ll leave it to you to see if they kiss and make up at the end.
Out-takes and behind the scenes footage from the shooting of "The Seating Plan". Includes giggles and silliness, a vibrating phone interrupting proceedings, and camera woman Alex Reynolds absolutely nailing the continuity. Plus post-scene hugs!
I think my favourite moment in this is when Ten sticks out her tongue at me. Serious top is serious :)
I’ve never been someone who collects clothes, or understands exactly what to wear to show myself off. At best I’ll find a skirt that’s a tad too short - and I'll feel hot because I hope it'll ride up occasionally and show guys in the pub a bit too much - but on most days I’ll be rummaging through the washing pile just finding a top that doesn’t have holes in. But even I, as someone who is useless at dressing to impress, will occasionally find something that makes me feel so sexy I know it’s special.
A particular corset, for instance, that cinches my waist just right, or frames my chest in a way that makes me feel like a medieval tavern wench. A pair of knickers with rows of ruffles and frills that makes me want to lie face-down on the bed, bum in the air, biting the pillow and waiting for the palm of a hand to smack down, hard.
There’s no question that there are certain clothes that just make you feel different – more aware of everything around you. As if just by putting them on you’ve tapped into new feelings that you weren’t sensitive to before.
Silk does this for me, and so does lace. That smooth or textured feeling rubbing against my skin. When it's lingerie, it makes me feel very aware of wearing it - and of what’s beneath.
Admiring the beautiful photos from our new two-part lesbian spanking photoset, watching Pandora Blake and Adele Haze tease and stroke and and spank each other, I just want to rummage in their wardrobes. Those gorgeous frills and lace, the stunning vintage lingerie, each and every piece framing and highlighting their curves. To me this kind of sexy underwear whispers sensuality.
It’s excellent to see that the first comment on the first ‘Companions’ photogallery comes from someone who is a fan of attractive underwear. When Pandora first sent me the set she told me that these outfits were inspired by a particular fantasy of Adele's, and that the pair of them loved dressing up in ribbons, lace, and all the trimmings.
The actual spanking is hot too, of course - the way Pandora grips Adele's hand behind her back as she kicks, the expressions of pain and pleasure that mingle on both girls' faces when it's their turn to go over the knee. Pandora and Adele have an obvious chemistry as they caress and smack each other. But I think the spanking is only one of many things that gives these particular photos their atmosphere: the vintage lingerie is just as significant.
When I read fetish blogs and forums I see a lot of discussion of the more modern clothing fetishes: latex, rubber, leather and all that is shiny. Another commenter once mentioned that the sound of a spanking is different over tights than on the bare, and I suspect the sound factor might be a part of any other fabric fetish, too. Leather, PVC and latex certainly sound delightful when you smack them. But I know Pandora loves all things historical and elegant, and so why not pay homage to a different sort of fetish fashion? These photos are a delicious tribute to all that’s frilly and soft and vintage - those pale white gloves, those lacy knickers, the kind of underwear that makes you feel coddled and caressed.
Check out the beautiful Companions photosets – part one, in which Adele Haze gives Pandora Blake an over the knee spanking, and part two in which the spanking roles are reversed. We've talked before about the best kind of material to spank or get spanked in - but what makes you feel sexiest? Would you go for something stark and strong like leather or latex, or would you - like me - give your right arm to try on some of Adele and Pandora's gorgeous vintage lingerie?
Although Ten Amorette has appeared on Dreams of Spanking before and is well known within the spanking scene, I didn't know her until I watched The Seating Plan. I loved her confident dialogue, and the scene builds fantastically from friendly chat to firm punishment. The film opens with the ladies sitting down to discuss the seating plan at Pandora Blake's upcoming wedding to Ten's little brother, then swiftly descends into a punishment spanking designed to keep Pandora in line for the course of her marriage.
Ten is fantastic as the authoritative big sister, and she certainly knows how to wield a hairbrush. Ten knows that Pandora has a history of cheating on her partners and suspects her of flirting with other men. Ten clearly takes her role as a protective older sister seriously, willing to give a hard hairbrush spanking to the woman she thinks might break her brother's heart.
I love Ten's completely no-nonsense approach. She grabs Pandora by the wrist and pulls her over her knee so quickly that impression Pandora doesn't realise what's coming until hard spanks start raining down on her bottom. She squeals and squirms, and five minutes in the over the knee spanking hurts so much that she lets out a strangled growl of outrage.
Ten is best known for her work as a spankee, but she is clearly an expert spanker. Her punishment of Pandora is utterly relentless – scolding, offering advice and pithy responses to Pandora's bratty comebacks, all the while holding Pandora firmly down over her lap and not letting her escape the firm whacks of the wooden hairbrush over Pandora's sheer tights.
When the time comes to pull Pandora's tights and knickers down, she does it with the same ruthless efficiency. Pandora starts to suspect that Ten spanked her little brother like this too when they were growing up - she is clearly well-practised at dishing out hard punishment spankings with the wooden hairbrush.
Look out for my favourite line in the whole scene, when Ten offers to donate her hairbrush to Pandora's future husband as a wedding gift, so he can apply similar punishment in future if she steps out of line again.
I had a very pleasant surprise the other day when Girl on the Net sent me this link - Check Out The Trailer For "Instructed" With Pandora Blake.
To say I am stoked to be featured on Fleshbot is an understatement. This is one of those career-defining moments - something I never thought would happen to a performer working in a very niche, kinky corner of the porn industry. I don't think it would have happened if I hadn't been collaborating with a famous feminist porn pioneer. Thank you Ms Naughty!
Speaking of Instructed, the behind the scenes videos are now online. There are three in total - pre-shoot and post-shoot interviews, plus the outtakes from filming. A BBC journalist was present on this shoot, and this is your chance to see what he saw and go behind the scenes on the filming of a feminist porn film. To show you just how much fun I was having, I've made some exclusive Dreams of Spanking screengrabs from our behind the scenes videos. Enjoy!
I'm still a bit in love with "Instructed", and I think this collaborative feminist porn film is my best work to date. If you haven't seen it yet, go watch it now and let me know what you think!
A long time ago I had a partner who would tell me to do scary things. Not 'jumping off a bridge' scary things, but sexually scary things – stuff I'd never have thought to do on my own.
“Bend over. Spread yourself. Wait there.”
Those were just his words, though. What he was actually saying was “do you trust me? If you trust me I can do things you've never even thought about before.”
I'd wait, shaking with anticipation and delight, with no clue what he was going to do next. When he came back, with ice, or ginger, or something deviously sadistic with which to torment me, I'd shiver with pleasure – glad that I waited, glad I stayed still. Glad that I'd trusted him.
It's a rare and delicious treat to watch this dynamic played out elsewhere – couples who can experiment within that safety net of trust, and let you in on some of the incredibly hot, filthy games that they play.
'Instructed' is all about that. Not only is it Pandora's most explicit film to date (I don't want to spoil it for you, but think anal play and a phenomenally hot on-camera orgasm), it's also a genuinely gorgeous film that lets us in on one of those trust games of dominance and submission.
If you're a regular reader, you'll know the concept already – we've been so excited about this scene we've been trailing it for a while. Pandora is in a hotel, with written instructions from D. He can't be with her til later that evening, so meanwhile he sets wheels in motion to dominate her from afar – sending a letter that orders her to strip, fondle her breasts while she watches herself in the mirror, and administer a self-spanking with a heavy wooden clothesbrush. The rest? Well, I'll let you see for yourself...
The gorgeous thing about this short film (apart from Pandora – in stockings and fetish heels, on all fours on the bed, she looks filthily hot) is that it so perfectly captures the chemistry between D and Pandora. D doesn't appear in the film, but listening to his instructions in voiceover – calm, quietly growling tones which had me squirming in my seat – you can feel Pandora's anticipation and excitement about following his every command. As Pandora herself explained, you should watch this “if you like gravelly-voiced dominant men with London accents telling you to do filthy, filthy things.” I suspect I'm not the only one for whom that instantly appeals.
But the best thing by far is the demonstration of how achingly, stickily arousing that level of trust can be. This film was genuinely spontaneous on Pandora's part. She knew the outline – that she'd be given instructions to follow – but she had no idea what would be in D's letter until the moment she opened it in front of the camera. He'd clearly thought long and hard about what she'd enjoy, what he'd like to see, and the best way to build her arousal to a stunning, unique, and boundary-testing experience.
He said 'do you trust me?' and she answered with a wholehearted 'yes.' The results are spectacular.
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A while ago Pandora sent me the latest Dreams of Spanking film with the caveat that 'our sympathies here are definitely with the spankee!' The idea being that - as I think is the norm in Pandora's work - the story is told from the spankee's perspective, and in Christy's case we feel bad for her ... despite being deeply aroused by her red bottom and plaintive squeals of pain.
In 'Intervention', I don't think I'm going out on a limb here to say that the case is the exact opposite. This painful hairbrush spanking is very much deserved.
Amelia Jane Rutherford puts her acting skills to good use in this film, playing the most obnoxious, conniving work colleague that anyone has had the misfortune to work with. She oozes fake sympathy with her underpaid colleagues (played by Pandora Blake and Caroline Grey), dripping saccharine sweetness and patronising words even as she boasts about her own recent payrise.
She insists on showing them how she's planning to remodel her bathroom, using money they all know she's been stealing from the company - putting expenses claims in for erotic lingerie is just one of many ways she's been doing the dirty. While showing off her unearned success, she oozes mock sympathy that her colleagues haven't fared as well:
“We can't all have payrises now, can we Pandora?”
While Amelia's out of the room, her justifiably pissed-off colleagues Pandora and Caroline discuss their strategy. They've clearly planned a punishment for Amelia that will make her think about her bad behaviour, encourage her to stop usurping her coworkers and – because this is a Dreams of Spanking film – give her a bottom so red she won't be able to sit down for a week, let alone sit at the right hand of the boss she's been sucking up to.
Amelia is an out-and-out baddie in this film, and so it's delightful to see her get her comeuppance. Watching her be spanked with not one, but two horrid wooden hairbrushes art once is incredibly hot – Caroline and Pandora take it in turns to whack her, pulling her skirt up to reveal the stockings and sexy lingerie she spent company money on, and administering a no-nonsense double wooden hairbrush spanking until she squeals in pain.
The punishment itself is beautiful, but it's made even more delicious by the fact that it's so well deserved. If anyone ever deserved a humiliating hairbrush spanking, it's Amelia's character in 'Intervention.' When you watch you'll see exactly what I mean, I promise.
While I was staying with Alex and Paul in LA, with fortuitous timing, Ten Amorette visited the city for a couple of days. I was keen to shoot with her again, and we arranged to spend a day filming various M/F and F/F scenarios for Dreams of Spanking.
I adore Ten, and we always have a great chemistry when we work together. After how steamy things got on our last shoot during Filthy Girl, I was keen to include some more opportunities for sensual domination. We kicked things off with a scene dreamed up by Dreams of Spanking member John Codders. Ten plays my girlfriend who knows I will be working late, and sets up a sexy surprise for me when I walk in: her, naked on the bed, ready to be spanked. Who wouldn't want to come home to a surprise like that?
Although Ten usually bottoms on video, she is an accomplished switch and has developed a reputation for being a fearsome domme in in private sessions. I decided to find out for myself just how good she was. We came up with a storyline where Ten plays a protective big sister, visiting her brother's new fiancée to plan the wedding. She has heard rumours that I've cheated on boyfriends in the past, and she wants to make certain that I'm not going to get up to my old tricks once I've married her little brother. As well as discussing the seating plan for the reception, she has plans for my seat to make absolutely sure the lesson sinks home.
Ten took me over her knee and spanked me over my tights, knickers and on the bare with her hand and a heavy wooden hairbrush. I quickly discovered that her reputation as a top is absolutely deserved. Her verbal scolding was fantastic, and she gave me one hell of a spanking! I don't usually love the hairbrush, but wriggling over Ten's lap, wondering if I could take another swat and feeling her hold me more firmly in place, I had to admit that although it was painful, it was also very erotic.
After that, I got my revenge in a schoolgirl bondage scene which took advantage of Ten's love of rope (at N_Craig2's request). She played a hapless schoolgirl, attacked and tied up by the school bully (moi), who shoved her to the ground, tied her wrists with her own school tie, gagged her with her own white cotton knickers and spanked her for not giving me her lunch money. This scene was smoking hot and by the end of it I think everyone in the room was feeling hot and flustered!
We wrapped up the F/F scenes with a fun bathroom spanking between me and my lover Alex Reynolds. Getting naked, hot, wet and soapy with a beautiful girl, and taking care exploring all her luscious curves with a foamy wash-cloth ... if only every day could be like this.
After lunch we filmed a couple of more intense scenes, both M/F. In the first one I cast Ten and Paul in a scenario exploring a new cinematic technique. The idea is a way of using the camera to engage the viewer directly with the spankee, and centre the spankee's perspective and experience. I came up with it at the Feminist Porn Conference in conversation with academic Sarah Stevens. I won't ruin the surprise, but if this technique works it might become a regular feature of my film-making.
In this scene Ten plays an escort hired by a conniving politician to bring down rival MP Paul Kennedy. Having met Paul in a bar and caught his attention, Ten's job is to seduce him into spanking and belting her hard enough to leave marks. She will then sell her story to the press, photos and all, exposing poor Mr Kennedy as a "pervert" and causing his downfall. Ten was perfect in her role, deftly manipulating Paul into taking her over the knee and pretending to submit to his dominance, not letting him realise that the whole time, she was totally in control.
Finally, we ended the day with an edgy roleplay between Paul and Alex. I love shooting real couples and capturing the energy and intimacy of their play. When there is real love, trust and respect between two people, the dominance and submission can go much deeper, and scenes can be a lot more intense.
We started out shooting interviews with Paul and Alex, both individually and together, letting them talk about their relationship, their kink dynamic, the sort of play they like to do together, and how they feel about each other. For me as a viewer, showing that connection and affection makes it much easier to enjoy the sort of dark, fucked-up roleplay that followed.
Alex and Paul gave us a glimpse into the dark side of their kink with an edgy, not-particularly-consensual scene. Alex plays a young girl caught skipping school, and Paul a truant officer (or so he claims) who takes full sadistic advantage of the situation. Alex drew inspiration from an intense thigh tawsing scene between Paul and Nimue Allen called 'I've Seen You', which you can find on Nimue's World. Alex told us that this is one of her favourite ever videos, and she has watched it many, many times. I was honoured to help her bring this fantasy to life for Dreams of Spanking.
The roleplay was nasty, brutal and violent, with Alex protesting and crying as Paul forcibly stripped her, viciously tawsed her bottom and thighs, insulted her, threatened her, and reduced her to a sobbing mess.
But all's well that ends well - and I got some lovely photos of them snuggling up on the sofa together enjoying some post-spanking aftercare.
During the most intense part of the scene, mid-tawsing, the doorbell rang. We were playing in the lounge, and the front door opened straight on to it. The blinds were closed so we hadn't seen whoever had approached, but they surely must have heard the whacks of the strap and Alex's tearful protests. I was still deciding whether to ignore it or answer it when Paul strode to the front door, tawse in hand, and yanked it open.
I heard a reedy little voice begin, "Hello! We are missionaries - "
"That's nice," Paul snarled, "Goodbye." And he slammed the door, marched back to the sofa and resumed whipping Alex's thighs without breaking character.
Missionaries. I have to say that's the first time that has happened, and it's not an experience I would ever wish on my performers during a spanking shoot - especially not during a scene as edgy as that!
We finished up with some scenes for Northern Spanking. Alex and I played sisters squabbling over the only tennis racquet, which involved lots of girl-fighting and wrestling in very short tennis skirts! I also played Ten's lover, dominating her in lingerie with the cane.
For more previews of the Northern Spanking scenes and to read Paul's perspective on the shoot, head on over his report on this shoot on the Northern Spanking Forum.