We talk a lot about pre-scene negotiations at Dreams of Spanking – and they are, without a doubt, a crucial part of BDSM play. The post-spanking scene debrief is almost as important, but it gets a lot less press! It’s not simply aftercare; aftercare is vital, but the debrief comes a little later. Once the toys are put away and the bottoms have been rubbed, it’s a good idea to figure out what was a fantasy fulfilled and what was perhaps a little too intense.
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