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New update: Provocative Housework behind the scenes

Well, this one isn't exactly new - in fact it's been up on the site for a couple of weeks. But what with campaigning against the new porn legislation, unexpectedly being invited to debate the legislation on Channel 4 News, sessions, spanking parties, and spending a couple of days in Birmingham pair-editing some of the scenes for our new joint project with Nimue Allen, I'm a bit behind on blogging! Which means that I've got quite a few blogposts lined up for you over the holidays - what better time to get a daily dose of spanking updates to while away the Christmas break?

When it's the stunning Lola Marie in front of the camera, it's always worth looking back a couple of weeks to show you some new behind the scenes goodness...

Provocative Housework: Behind the scenes

Performers: Lola Marie, Pandora Blake

Out-takes and fun behind the scenes during the shooting of Provocative Housework - including Lola's impression of Patsy from Ab Fab, Lola admiring the old-school oven and iron in the shoot kitchen, scene planning, sexy wiggling, funny faces and silly voices, Pandora admiring Lola's bruises, and both of them actually cleaning the oven!

Lola is her usual bubbly self in this behind the scenes video, which includes quite a few silly voices and faces. She was such fun to have on set. I can't wait to work with her again in 2015!

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Housework is more fun in your underwear

From cleaning the bathroom wearing only your knickers to scrubbing the oven in sexy lingerie and heels – housework is far more fun when you're just wearing underwear. And it's certainly more interesting to watch.

Lola Marie does a spectacular job of tempting Pandora Blake in this week's spanking video – stripping down to a sexy black bra, thong and sexy high heels, and deliberately posing so she shows off her gorgeous bum.

Lola Marie bends over and shows off her bottom at Dreams of Spanking Lola Marie bends over and shows off her bottom at Dreams of Spanking

I find it hard to work when my partner's around – there's a temptation to play, chat, and generally have more fun than I'd have on my own with a laptop. That's one of the reasons why I love this scene – Lola Marie and Pandora capture the flirtatious chemistry of a couple going about their domestic routine, and the ease with which normal household things can turn into something much more interesting.

Lola Marie gets spanked in sexy lingerie at Dreams of Spanking Lola Marie gets spanked in sexy lingerie at Dreams of Spanking

Lola Marie gets a spanking, of course – who would be able to resist her cheeky grin and wiggling bottom when she's keen to play? And as ever I'm impressed at just how much hard spanking she can take, reacting with 'oohs' and giggles as Pandora thoroughly warms her beautiful bottom.

I love Lola Marie's insouciance – she's completely perfect in scenes where she's flirting or bratting her way into a spanking. There's something about her amazing sexy smile that says “I've just got exactly what I want.”

Lola Marie gets spanked in sexy lingerie at Dreams of Spanking Lola Marie gets spanked in sexy lingerie at Dreams of Spanking

I'm especially impressed that, as a result of her provocative behaviour, Lola Marie manages to get Pandora to join in with the cleaning...

Lola Marie gets spanked in sexy lingerie at Dreams of Spanking

Sleepy Lola Marie gets spanked awake

I feel Lola Marie's pain in this week's video. Not just the stinging pain of Thomas Cameron's smacks on her bare bottom, but the agony of having to get out of bed when you're warm and cosy and tucked up in your PJs.

Sleepyhead starts with some gorgeous shots of the sleeping girl luxuriating in the joy of a nice lie-in, and soon turns into a cheeky and playful punishment scene. Thomas realises that Lola is far too reluctant to get out of bed, and decides to punish her with a wake-up spanking – which grows harder as he's compelled to punish her for cheeky back-chat as well.

Sleepy girl Lola Marie spanked in pyjamas at Dreams of Spanking

The first part of the spanking is delightfully flirtatious, as Thomas takes Lola over his knee she's by turns sulky and funny, playing with him just enough to make sure she deserves her punishment. There's a gorgeous exchange shortly after the spanking begins when she tells Thomas just how warm her bed is, and he replies: “I can organise warmth in more than one way.” I know he's referring to the warmth that comes from a spanked bum, but there's a genuine warmth between the two characters here too, which reminds me of many of my favourite sexy mornings in bed...

Sleepy girl Lola Marie spanked in pyjamas at Dreams of Spanking

This is an elegantly simple spanking video, and Lola's costume is the definition of sexy casual – short pyjamas that show off her gorgeous round bottom. It can't be said enough: Lola-Marie has a beautiful arse. All the shots in this video make the absolute most of it – from the beginning when she settles herself over Thomas's knee, to right at the end where we're treated to lots of close-ups of it bright red and stinging as she gets spanked on the bed.

One of the best things about this scene in my opinion is prompted by Thomas's requests to “arch your hips for me now please” - the neat efficiency with which Lola arches her hips, to allow him to pull down her short pyjamas and knickers, and her beautiful bottom as he slides her PJs down – could there be a sexier wake-up call than this?

Belted in leathers

One of the most fun bits of producing spanking porn is getting to dress gorgeous performers up in the outfits I want to see them in - be that historical costume, authentic uniforms or sexy lingerie.

It's always difficult writing scenes for someone you haven't met yet, so after booking Lola Marie I browsed her twitter feed for inspiration. I found a super cute photo of her wearing a leather jacket (although it seems to be offline now, more's the pity) and decided to dress her in denim and leathers for a scene in which she played a tough biker girl.

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Biker Girl

Tom isn't impressed when he gets a call from his mate Lola in the middle of the night asking him to pick up her and her bike in his van after she came off the road. Luckily, she wasn't hurt, but her bike was a bit worse for wear, and Tom had to call in a favour to get one of his friends to fix it up for her.

When he finds out she'd been drinking, he's tempted to confiscate her helmet for a few weeks to knock some sense into her. Lola is outraged, but he's determined to teach her a lesson one way or another - one even this tough biker girl won't forget. He gives her a choice: a slow lesson, stay off the road for a couple of months; or quick one, take a 30 stroke thrashing from his belt. When Lola realises he's serious, she doesn't take long to decide. She's a biker. She always prefers speed.

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"You've got to be joking, mate."

Tough biker girl Lola Marie gets the leather belt at Dreams of Spanking
That moment when the belt's about to fall...

Tough biker girl Lola Marie gets the leather belt at Dreams of Spanking
Fishnets and lacy panties under jeans? Yes please.

Tom has always had a bit of a thing for the idea of a girl wearing stockings and fancy lingerie underneath jeans. Casual and everyday on the outside, a sexy surprise waiting underneath for the lucky person who gets to take the jeans down.

When we came up with this scenario, it actually made sense for Lola to still have on the fishnet stockings she'd worn out to the bar last night under the sturdy jeans she was wearing to ride there and back. Sexy, feminine leopard-print panties with pink lace trim, fishnet stockings, all hidden under a tough, fuck-you exterior. Perfection.

I had no idea when I cast her how well Lola would rise to the challenge of playing the streetwise, south London biker chick who refuses to show any weakness, and lets her mate thrash her simply so she can prove she's hard enough to take it. She took the belt with a self-control I can only envy. They were hard strokes, but Lola ate them for breakfast.

Tough biker girl Lola Marie gets the leather belt at Dreams of Spanking Tough biker girl Lola Marie gets the leather belt at Dreams of Spanking

My favourite moment in this film is after the thrashing is over, when Tom tells her to stand up and have a rub if she likes. Lola just looks at him. "I'm hardcore. I don't need to rub nothing."

Yes, yes she really is.

A schoolgirl crush


A screengrab from schoolgirl punishment film Teacher's Pest. I love the intense look on Tom's face.

Fans of new UK spanking starlet Lola Marie have been eager to see some video of her in action. I'm pleased to say that the first film from our shoot with her is now up. Lola's bottom and acting skills got a real workout in this intense school spanking film.

Teacher's Pest

In their shared dorm schoolgirls Pandora and Lola gossip about the boys they like. Lola confesses that she has a crush on a male teacher, and wants to be spanked by him. But she's such a teacher's pet she never gets in trouble! Pandora encourages her to earn a trip over Mr Cameron's knee.

Lola arrives at detention wearing knickers that say "BAD", and in a flirtatious mood. Needless to say, her teacher is unimpressed. He gives her a severe, no-nonsense hairbrush spanking until her bottom and thighs are marked and sore. She quickly decides she doesn't want to play any more - but by then it's too late.

Schoolgirl Lola Marie spanked with a hairbrush at Dreams of Spanking

I wrote this scene years ago based on a fantasy of mine, with myself in mind as the spankee. But when I had the opportunity to work with Lola I realised her sexy, playful demeanour was perfect for the part. She turned out a fantastic performance as the good girl who plays bad in order to earn a trip over her teacher's knee - and gets far more than she bargained for.

The resulting film is funny, believable and super hot. I loved Lola's acting throughout the embarrassingly inappropriate seduction attempt - and her crestfallen reactions as she starts to realise that things aren't turning out the way she wanted.

Schoolgirl Lola Marie spanked with a hairbrush at Dreams of Spanking Schoolgirl Lola Marie spanked with a hairbrush at Dreams of Spanking

I wasn't expecting the wooden hairbrush spanking to be so intense, but Tom and Lola ran with the scene and it ended up being a much harder punishment than I could have taken. Lola is not only beautiful but she can take one hell of a spanking!

The wooden brush left a very distinctive pattern of marks on Lola's bottom and thighs. You can see some of it in the free video trailer for Teacher's Pest, but to give you a better idea I've also taken some screen captures of the action as the hairbrush does its work:

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Severe wooden hairbrush punishment for Lola Marie at Dreams of Spanking Severe wooden hairbrush punishment for Lola Marie at Dreams of Spanking

Look at those white and purple marks. Ow ow ow!

The scene page also includes a free interview with Lola Marie from the end of our shoot with her, and a behind the scenes video for members, including some hilarious out-takes. Some of the moments during the making-of Teacher's Pest were comedy gold. Here are some snapshots:

Behind the scenes during the filming of Teacher's Pest
Lola seems uncommonly cheerful about being over the knee!

Behind the scenes during the filming of Teacher's Pest
Tom and Lola both looking up at the camerawoman (i.e. moi!) all wide-eyed. What on earth had I just said?!

Behind the scenes during the filming of Teacher's Pest
It's all fun and laughter making spanking video - until someone gets spanked. No, wait...

Behind the scenes during the filming of Teacher's Pest
I'm sorry to say that Tom gives me this look all too often.


The moment just after the hairbrush flew out of Tom's hand mid-spank. Genius!

It was a great shoot and we loved working with Lola. The scene wraps up with the two school friends back in the dormitory, as Lola laments how badly their plan backfired. I rubbed soothing lotion into the poor girl's bruised bottom. It's a hard life!

Soothing bottom rubs in the dormitory for spanked schoolgirl Lola Marie

Whipped to tears

I recently had the opportunity to realise a huge personal fantasy - a particularly edgy domestic discipline scenario. The key element of the fantasy is severe, perhaps excessive punishment from an angry paternal figure; I might kick, struggle, cry, say I'm sorry and beg him no, but the whipping continues regardless. In my fantasies the punishment takes various forms, but when I had to choose one to immortalise in video I opted for a severe belt whipping of over 100 strokes, delivered nearly full force without a warm-up.

Here's the trailer for my Belt Whipping Fantasy:

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This scene includes lots of kicking, struggling, and begging, and the whipping proceeds regardless for over 100 very hard strokes. It continued past the point where I was saying "please, no", and past the point where it broke down my resistance and I started to cry. This was a hugely cathartic and satisfying experience for me.

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Crying during spanking is a thorny issue, and shooting this scene inspired me to blog about it recently. In this case, the floodgates opened about three quarters of the way through. I'd stopped trying to struggle and fight back, and had reached that point in the whipping where I was just knuckling down and trying to get through it.

Even though I'd surrendered, even though I was sorry, nonetheless Tom aimed a particularly hard stroke low on my thighs. Rather than feeling indignant at the unfairness of it, it just tipped me over the edge. I accepted the pain without argument. It just made me more aware of my own helplessness. I broke out in genuine, gulping sobs and tears poured down my face. The punishment continued remorselessly, which is of course exactly how I wanted it. 

Pandora Blake whipped to tears with a belt at Dreams of Spanking
Pandora Blake whipped to tears with a belt at Dreams of Spanking

Of course, this sort of edgy scenario can be problematic for viewers. I find the idea of helplessness, severity and punishments that aren't necessarily fair or consensual incredibly hot, but as a porn user I struggle to enjoy videos telling this sort of story unless I have absolute, cast-iron certainty that the spankee was privately enjoying the experience. One of my main aims with this website is to solve the problem of how viewers can tell that a dark, severe or edgy fantasy video was produced by performers who not only consented, but did so enthusiastically, and had fun with it.

Behind the scenes videos are one way of showing this, as are blogposts like this one. There has been some debate about portraying certain fantasies in porn in the UK this year, and one criticism was that if videos are taken out of context, it can be very hard to tell the difference between good acting, and a shoot that was genuinely unpleasant for the spankee. I had the idea of bringing some of the behind the scenes material into the video itself, so that as well as seeing the fantasy, you also see some of the making-of before and after. Right now I'm loving the idea of showing real negotiation of kinky scenes, including communication before and after, as a way to make production more transparent, and perhaps provide some examples of healthy communication in kinky relationships.

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I can testify that it is absolutely possible to realise a severe, edgy, violent and boundary-pushing fantasy in a safe, responsible and enjoyable way - but a lot goes into it beyond the roleplay itself. There's preparation and talking beforehand, choosing positions and implements, negotiating limits and details. There's breaks, if necessary, during the scene; and there's aftercare and cuddles once it's over. I like watching videos of rather nasty things happening to people, and as a pornographer I think it's important to produce them in a way that's empowering for the "victim". I'm interested in showing that part of the process as well as the fantasy itself.

So Pandora's Belt Whipping Fantasy opens with me talking about this scene beforehand, what makes it hot for me, and how I feel going into it. We then videoed my chat with Tom in which I told him about the scene - I hadn't shared some of the details with him until this conversation and I wanted to show the negotiation, and his responses, live as they happened. We agree various specifics, and then go straight into the roleplay. Later, after the punishment sequence is complete, the camera keeps rolling as we drop out of character and react to the scene. 

I was a bit nervous about this format, in case viewers told me they found the behind the scenes sections ruined their suspension of disbelief and prevented them from getting into the fantasy. But so far the feedback I've received has been overwhelmingly positive. This is definitely a format I will consider using again, especially for darker or more severe scenes.

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Personally, when dabbling in extreme kinky fantasies, I'm much more comfortable if it's an experience that's led and initiated by the spankee rather than imposed on them. On this site you can guarantee that any scene I am spanked in is one I sought out for myself; and since launching Dreams of Spanking I've enacted more of my fantasies than I ever imagined. This website provides a safe space for me to explore my darkest fantasies; and hopefully a safe space for you to enjoy them, too.  

Lola Marie's naughty striptease

I recently blogged about our shoot with Lola Marie, the stunning new adult performer who debuted with Spanking Sarah earlier this year and is now merrily making her way across the UK spanking sites. It was our pleasure to shoot with her and to show you more of this lovely lady. Lola's first photoset is now online, where you can see her posing for for some portraits and glamour shots, and performing a seductive striptease. Lola has an infectious smile, a beautiful body, and a combination of coy, innocent mischief and womanly sexual power which is absolutely enthralling.

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Introducing Lola Marie

 

Meet our newest cast member Lola Marie as she reveals her stunning body in this naughty striptease, pointing her toes in long rainbow socks, and bending over to show off her supremely spankable bottom!

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I'm looking forward to publishing the spanking videos we shot with Lola, and the first one is currently scheduled to be released in mid-October. Watch this space!

Stunning Lola Marie nude in long socks at Dreams of Spanking

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