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When fantasy becomes reality

Pandora Blake serves as a footstool for Mistress Lorraine at Dreams of Spanking

Slave fantasies are pretty common, and for obvious reasons they often come along with a heavy non-consent vibe. We love to take our opportunities to reinforce the agency of the submissive in a BDSM encounter, though - and finally living out a deeply-held, intensely personal sexual fantasy on your own terms can be an incredibly empowering experience.

Despite her cheekiness, Blake’s character in What did your last slave die of? hasn’t actually been daydreaming about playing the brat. She knows what her housemate does for a living, and she wants to learn more: what would it be like to serve someone, just for an hour or two? How would it feel to be on the receiving end of the slender, whippy canes she sees Lorraine wipe down and tidy away every Sunday afternoon?

Mistress Lorraine puts leather cuffs on Pandora Blake at Dreams of Spanking

There’s something deeply sexy about the idea of someone finally getting to try out things they’ve fantasised about under drawn covers and behind closed doors. The only thing hotter, in fact, is the smirk on Lorraine’s face as she makes excellent use of her new footstool - and the well-timed strikes with a riding crop to keep her newest slave in line.

Inside the circle

Seani Love and Ron Beastly hold hands and look in each other's eyes at Dreams of Spanking

A BDSM scene can be a great many things. Sometimes it’s a bubble of fantasy, a roleplayed world in which the participants get to be lifted entirely out of their own minds. Other times it’s a microcosm of a particular relationship, a particular dynamic - an exploration of the connection between two people that belongs only to them.

In Conscious Kink, it’s something else again. For Seani and Ron this was a new experience; neither of them had performed on camera before. The scene they created together was a collaborative, almost sacred space, with every inch carefully negotiated between themselves.

Ron Beastly is in rope bondage at Dreams of Spanking

This film is a deep dive into that space, and into the connection it developed between the people inside it. We get to go on the journey with them - from their first discussions about what they might use their play together for, through to the beginnings of their aftercare as they decide it’s time to wrap up.

It’s a totally different look at kink and BDSM than many of our films here. It’s a very raw, real experience: you can really feel your way through Ron’s shivers under the impact of the blows he asks for. It also gives the viewer a chance to learn a little something about how to play with conscious kink - and how to create deep, mindful BDSM experiences of their own.

The best kind of attention

Clara Hewitt scolds Faerie Willow at Dreams of Spanking

This week we’re releasing another scene from our fantastically successful weekend-long shoot with Faerie Willow and Clara Hewitt. We had a gorgeous period house to play in, and we made loads of great content - past hits from the two days we were there include Mater Familias and the Finishing School duo, amongst others.

Not Dressed Like That You Don’t is a deeper exploration of a particular kind of spanking dynamic: the nurturing, protective top who wants to help their spankee grow and learn. Clara is excellent in this kind of role, and strikes a perfect balance between loving and firm - even as Willow starts out doing her best ‘cheeky brat’ impression!

Clara Hewitt spanks Faerie Willow on the bare bottom at Dreams of Spanking

If you enjoy ageplay dynamics and nurturing discipline, this one’s for you. You should also check it out if you just like the idea of seeing Willow in a scandalously short pink miniskirt - it really does draw the attention rather...

Well really, Mr. Bear!

Pandora Blake gets the hairbrush from Lana Moon at Dreams of Spanking

We all figure out our predilections in our own ways. For some of us, it was something we watched or read as a child that woke up a part of our mind to possibilities untold; for others it was a person we met later on, someone who saw something in us we hadn’t fully understood about ourselves. For the two young ladies trapped together in this week’s release, it was an idle play at first - then a mutual recklessness, a delicious sense of being in a fantasy land away from the strictures they were raised to think unbreakable.

It begins so innocently. A game of cards; an exchange of dares. A revelation - Lana has thrown off her petticoats, taken her quarantine as an opportunity to experiment with something a little more daring. Pandora is more cautious at first - whatever will the landlady think? - but it’s not long before they’re both topless and skirtless, stripped to their stockings, admiring each other’s exposed breasts with a newfound, blushing desire.

Pandora Blake and Lana Moon hold hairbrushes, wearing nothing but stockings and masks at Dreams of Spanking

This is not a story from our own quarantines of recent years, but still it feels familiar to us as this latest pandemic drags ever on. I’m certain there are people out there who explored new horizons during our lockdowns, too: who were spanked for the first time, learned an entirely new side of themselves, discovered the true depths of a friendship hitherto platonic.

I hope they had as much fun as these two, giggling and thrilling as they tie each other’s wrists and take a hairbrush to each other’s backsides.

A face as red as her bottom.

If you enjoyed the lavishly detailed, dreamily fantastical nature of recent rediscovery Ms. Howard’s Little Girl, you’re in for a treat: Tammy’s Shame is an equally intriguing companion piece, featuring the same characters and a few new developments.

Like its counterpart this is an intense, edgy film, depicting a scenario that in any real institution would be completely beyond the pale. And of course that’s a lot of what makes it hot: the indomitable Ms. Howard is a force to be reckoned with, and her labyrinthine ruleset seems intentionally designed to produce slip-ups and misbehaviours from Tammy and the other girls in her care. 

If you’ve ever wondered what’s really going on in the dream sequences in our much-loved spanking hit My Inner Little Girl, then Tammy’s Shame has the answer. We mentioned at the release of the first part that this is where those clips came from, and this film contains most of that footage - so watch out for the bits you recognise, enjoy discovering the ones you don’t, and picture yourself at the mercy of this inexcusably strict Housemistress’s guideline.

Introducing the X tag



I spoke recently about the names that I use on Dreams. When I'm playing a male role or doing a scene where I'm my own non-binary self, I will be referred to as Blake and they/them or he/him, as opposed to being Pandora and using she/her pronouns when performing as a woman. 

The fact is, this is the case for many of our performers. We strive to welcome a cast of diverse performers, and this includes gender identities. Many of our performers are non-binary, and sometimes their role in a scene will be as "they" rather than "he" or "she". It's high time we made that visible.

When a performer is non-binary and presenting as such in the scene (whether that's in their pronouns, their character is non-binary or they are playing as themself), we will use the tag X to denote this. Where a performer is non-binary and the character they are playing is gendered F or M, the tags will include this gender along with the X tag

This means that when you're searching the site you can find the scenes that you enjoy, while respecting and reflecting the gender identities of our performers. You can find the orientation tags on our keywords page to browse the options.

Sixty long, hard seconds

Pandora Blake gets the paddle from Sarah Gregory over their knickers at Dreams of Spanking

The warmup is a vitally important part of the spanking process. When your skin is properly warmed up, blood rushes to the area in question and the main event hurts a little less - meaning you can go for longer and take more of a thrashing. A good warmup also helps both the spanker and the spankee figure out where they’re at that day and calibrate accordingly, especially if they’ve not played together much or it’s been a while.

In this week’s film, though, Blake and Sarah forgo the warming-up process entirely in favour of a particularly harsh cold paddling for one full, unrelenting minute. It’s an extremely hot scene, partly because skipping the warmup is usually a bad idea; this is a punishment, after all, and Sarah isn’t doing anything to make it any easier.

Sarah Gregory has Pandora Blake over her knee, in a leg lock as she paddles their bare bottom at Dreams of Spanking

The lack of a good warmup isn’t the only thing adding a little extra frisson to this spanking, though. The timer itself gives a very different feel than the more usual set number of strokes: till that alarm goes off Sarah won’t be slowing down or letting up, and Blake won’t have a chance to breathe between impacts and brace for the next one. It’s sixty full seconds in the heart of the storm, taking it over and over again.

The paddling was just as intense for Blake as a performer - there was no off-screen warmup before it was filmed, and those timed minutes were very real. It worked out because it was a well-negotiated scene, and because Blake and Sarah have been working together for a long time; there’s enough trust and understanding there for them to push the boundaries a little.

There’s a lot of love about this scene, and we’re looking forward to hearing from you all about it - and we’re also pretty sure Blake’s learned their lesson about staying up too late playing on their laptop!

She’s never getting married.

Rosie Bower kneels in front of Pandora Blake at Dreams of Spanking

There’s always been a rather Sapphic edge to the dynamic between a lady of noble birth and her slightly less privileged companions. This is particularly true in Victorian and early 20th century settings, where two unattached women might find themselves alone together for extended periods of time and bound by convention not to form real bonds with either the servants or the menfolk. In a world where emotive expression is not encouraged and intimacy is confined to closed doors and dark corners, human beings look for connection. Plus, you know...that power dynamic is hot as hell.

Which is precisely the conclusion reached by Miss Bower, the titular Lady’s Companion played by Rosie in this week’s release. 

Pandora Blake inspects Rosie Bower's spanked bottom at Dreams of Spanking

She mostly took the job out of necessity, we suspect; she needed to find a husband, which would be easier in the company of Lady Pandora than from her own reduced circumstances, and she needed to support herself in the meantime, which the house and wage on offer would enable her to do. And if her new mistress’s idea of discipline seems a little draconian...well, it’s a small price to pay.

Once she’s been there a while, though, she makes a startling discovery. There’s much more to learn from this rich widow than simply etiquette and connections - Coleridge and his “woman wailing for her demon-lover” give Miss Bower quite a start - and as for the discipline, well, it turns out there’s more to like about that than she could ever have imagined.

There’s a fun moment in the backstage footage where Rosie remarks that her character is clearly never going to marry - the two of them will be quite happy together for a long time yet, she suspects. I can’t say I can blame her.

You don’t say ‘please’ when you’re the mistress

Pandora Blake kneels on all fours for their new Mistress Lana Moon at Dreams of Spanking

The concept of a tyrannical dominant who runs a stable of auctioned submissives is a staple of the BDSM genre. In many of its iterations it follows the same few tropes: the participants are mostly straight, with perhaps the occasional bit of ‘play bisexuality’ thrown in as part of getting people out of their comfort zones; they’re overwhelmingly cis, with the only gender-non-conforming elements coming from cis men who enjoy the French maid role as submissives; most of the characters involved are white, especially the dominants. There’s also often an element of reluctance, with some of the submissive characters feeling in over their heads or in some way coerced.

Many of these tropes have their place. We’re huge fans of people being able to play out their fantasies in consensual, negotiated ways, and we certainly don’t shy away from themes of coercion and reluctance in our fictions here. Still, though, we like to do things a little differently when we can.

Pandora Blake is spanked on their bare bottom by Mistress Lana Moon at Dreams of Spanking

Goddess Lana’s New Slave is our latest addition to this canon, and it turns several of the usual patterns on their heads. Blake’s butch, submissive character is clearly eager to be where they are, and has very obviously enjoyed their rule-breaking spanking - there’s a delicious frisson of naughtiness to them as their reddened bottom is revealed, and they’re clearly eager to find out what their new Mistress’s reaction will be. Lana is gorgeously imperious and utterly femme, parading her latest acquisition aroud the room and pondering on all the fun she plans to have with them.

Lana Moon’s films are always fun to watch, and this is no exception - whether you’d rather be helping her keep her favourite steeds in line or joining them in their grabbable leather harnesses, you’ll enjoy this sojourn in the Mistress’s house.

An exercise in teamwork

Pandora Blake gets spanked by Stephen Lewis while laying on Kelley May's lap at Dreams of Spanking

It’s very hard to get a spanking completely even. If your implement has any kind of flexibility to it - which many do, including most lighter canes - it’s going to connect differently on different parts of the skin, emphasised by the fact that bottoms have beautiful curves and aren’t a flat surface. Floggers and straps are often thuddier toward the base and stingier at the tip, which gives a gorgeous mix of sensations and can make the experience all the more powerful.

Sometimes, though, that’s not quite what you’re looking for. Even after the very best spankings you can be left with a lopsided feeling - from the way your implement of choice wraps around, from the precise angle your top was striking from, from the side they’re standing on while they spank you. You can switch sides, of course, which leaves your glow a little more even, but it’s never exactly the same.

Pandora Blake gets the leather strap from Stephen Lewis at Dreams of Spanking

The ultimate solution to this “problem” (and it’s a great problem to have!) is to get yourself two tops and two toys, one on each side, taking it in turns to beat you as evenly as possible. The result is a gorgeous rain of sensation, and - if this week’s release is anything to go by - a lot of good giggling fun.

Spread for the Strap was filmed at the end of a day-long shoot, and it’s one of our more beautifully candid films. Nobody is following a script or playing a part, and you can tell how much the performers enjoyed the chance to wind down together once the more intense parts of the day were over. By the end, Pandora’s bottom is glowing a bright, beautiful red - and the whole cast are left smiling and laughing after a hard day’s work.

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