Love Our Lurkers
Happy Love Our Lurkers day! Today is the day when spanking bloggers across the world invite their silent readers to pop their heads over the parapet* and leave a comment - long or short - to let them know they're there.
Although this blog hasn't been here for very long, we know you're out there. Several of you have left a comment already, and there have been some stimulating conversations as a result. Others have expressed interest in other ways - by signing up for a user account or to receive email updates - but not said hello directly. Well, now's your chance!
It may seem counter-intuitive to actually chat to a porn producer online. After all, the sort of material which turns you on is your business, and you might prefer to enjoy it in private rather than discuss it with all and sundry. But by making what we want to see, we're reaching out to others who share our tastes - and we really like the fact that we're not alone. We want to build a community of like-minded people, performers and viewers alike. We're interested in hearing your ideas about what you like to see (and what you don't like). What's guaranteed to make you hot and bothered? What spanking fantasies and scenes have you cherished for ages, but never seen enshrined in film?
Good porn should have at least one moment that makes you catch your breath, makes your tummy feel funny. It's a different moment for everyone, and that's one of the things that makes creating porn so interesting. As a spanko I know what triggers those moments for me, but it can be hard to anticipate what triggers them for other people. We love hearing about your turn ons and turn offs. Not only does it make our job easier, but it opens our minds and sparks our imagination.
As an extra special welcome, we promise that if a dozen of you say hello today, we'll post a hot, full-size photo from an entirely new photoset, which hasn't been previewed online before. We haven't quite made up our minds which one yet, so if you leave a comment, you can even influence the decision by letting us know what you want to see. :)
Maybe you post in lots of places online already, and don't need another spanko community. Maybe you look at lots of spanking blogs and websites, but never leave a comment. Well, we aren't asking you to move in (although it's quite nice here - we've got some big beanbags and I make an awesome cup of tea). Just say hi, let us know you're out there, give us a wave from across the room. It's great to have you here. Milk and sugar?
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* I like the idea of my blog having a parapet.





So here's me waving hello from a world away! Love your blog.
:)
Lunargirl
Thanks so much for reading. It's great to meet you :)
Happy LOL Day!
I've commented countless times on your blog, but I think I haven't commented here, yet?! Does that count as delurking???
Anyway, a Happy LOL Day to you! As preferences for pictures go: How about one that features a spankable male bottom? ;-) No matter what the readers decide, I'm sure that the picture will be worth a look. Just like the one you've posted today which is very beautiful. :-)
(BTW, I'm just making those screengrabs for you now! Love your acting in this clip so much :) )
LOL
I'm was a regular visitor to your other blog, and always enjoy your posts. Thanks for being a part of LOL 6.
Hugs,
Hermione
Pandora given a sound hairbrushing on white cotton knickers for LOL6
Happy LOL 6
MarQe xx
You've just added something to my list of things to film - thanks very much! :)
Excellent !
MQ x
Love,
Ronnie
xx
LOL
Happy LOL day.
Fred
This post reminds me so much of the first time I wrote you, years ago after seeing your scene with Zoe Montana in "The Australian Governess" on Northern Spanking. As I recall, you wrote back about two months later with abject apologies for having taken so long to reply. I was both highly amused and touched.
So, yep, I learned that spanking porn stars and producers are real people who don't take their readers and viewers for granted. I have to admit, my exposure to spanking clips, those who make them, and some of the intelligent commentators-- especially women commentators-- on vanilla porn has changed my views of the place of porn in society.
I suspect this site will change my views on how easily I could live without spanking clips. ;-)
Hugs,
Indy
Poor sponki!
Spanking porn, porn blogging and the feminist porn movement have totally changed my views on porn in society, too. Five years ago I had no idea how much awesome work was being done! And there's still a lot to do in order to make that work more accessible and visible... but I genuinely believe that given a few years people's assumptions about what "porn" entails will be less dated.
I do hope you like my clips! I'm really nervous about raising expectations beyond the scope of my novice filmmaking skills, but the stories are quite interesting and I've worked with some brilliant actors, so I'm hoping that will make it possible for people to ignore my wobbly camerawork ;)
Requests.....
Works for me :)
Delurking ...
Die Masken ab!
Oy, so Dreams of Spanking has its own blog, eh? I wasn't even aware of that until now. It's been too long since I took a trip through the blogosphere.
So, I can actually leave a "true" delurker comment. My first and probably only one on this day.
Which photoset do I want to see? Any except the ones I'm in, I suppose. I know those, anyway, and it is the gracious thing to say. :)
Actually the films with you in have very few photos attached - we didn't stop to take many stills. (Apart from the two school ones, but those aren't DoS productions.) I'm very excited about my new Mac which will enable me to do your dojo caning movie justice, though :)
Lurking
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lurker comment
Thanks for the feedback on photos too, I love the more atmospheric/arty stuff. I have to ask though - which vintage dress photo do you mean? I'm not sure that's a Dreams of Spanking picture - was that on my other blog, perhaps from one of the other websites I've worked for?
reply to Pandora
I'm very pleased to hear you think the price point sounds reasonable. It's hard to know what to charge for a new site but putting your prices up over time is tricky too, so better off to start out where you intend to be, I think.
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I like caning merit badge must have seriously thick walls or understanding neighbours
Understanding housemates
historical spanking
Downton Abbey with red bottoms
hi from a lurking couple
Lurker hello
I have been lurking for a few years now. Have been a secret spanking fan for much longer.
I once wrote this story on Cliterati - http://www.cliterati.co.uk/story/by-men/siobhans-first-spanking - half based on an actual experience (alas I never quite got to the spanking part in real life)
Always have ideas for stories and get much inspiration from your adventures. Most recently enjoyed your recollection of the ping pong table spanking.
Keep up the good work,
Bryan
xx
A wave from a real lurker
Great to have an excuse to say hello :)
:)
~Todd and Suzy
Hello Pandora
I look forward to engaging with you more often through this particular site.
That's absolutely, bang on what I'm aiming for. Thankyou for this.
Greetings from Barcelona!
We love you Pandora :) don't forget it :P
Belated happy LOL day!
Coffee - of course! How'd you take it? :)
no morelurking
Delurking
As requested
That'll teach me for stopping on the way home and buying a new cane !
general feedback
Dont forget us please
Andy
Look for the preview of A Taste of Their Own Medicine too, if you haven't seen it. Me and Jimmy getting whacked together by Zoe. Fun!
otk
Fashionably late de-lurking...
I spectacularly appear to have completely missed this occasion...
Is it too late to de-lurk?
Can I just say that I absolutely love what you are doing here?
The intelligence of it, the elegance of it, the sheer gutsy, revolutionary creativity of it...
Well done all...
Such anticipation!
FT xx